Monday, September 25, 2006

Let's see ... how shall I begin everything? I just want to show both of you a different perspective of everything. Let me ask you, are you feeling better now that she is out of your life?

I know both of you care for each other alot but you just don't show it. I mean, it's weird showing that you actually care for her and stuff but only YOU know you care for her. She doesn't know. You assume she knows it, but she doesn't. So that is why she may have done things that hurt you and you may have done things that hurt her. Yes, it's sick and tiring to always hurt each other in friendships. You may think, isn't friendship all about laughing and being happy? Why must we always get hurt over doltish things? Since all we've ever done is hurt each other, why not just end this friendship? No, don't think that way. Being always happy doesn't mean that your friendship is perfect. And being hurt doesn't mean that your friendship is miserable either.

To make your friendship an almost perfect one is to give in to one another. It sure has its ups and downs but just stick it through together. Let those bad things that have happened to be a lesson and an obstacle that both of you can overcome together. Tell her nicely about some of the bad changes you've noticed about her or when she has hurt you, tell her everything candidly. Misunderstandings are bound to happen when both of you keep assuming this and that. The best way to end misunderstandings is to tell each other your own viewpoint of the matters that happened so that a common viewpoint can be obtained. It never hurts to apologise, does it? Sincerely, of course.

Why let a quarrel or her bad points cover up all the wonderful things both of you have done together? Why overlook the good she has done and what she has done for you because of a misunderstanding or that she has changed? Help to mould her into a better person. Take her hand and say, "We'll stick it through. That's what friends are for, isn't it?" It may be just a simple sentence but I believe it means the world to her. She don't have to be fed with extravagant words but just simple gestures can make her feel assured.

Why not put an end to this horrible quarrel now? Each of you give in a little and talk to each other about everything that's tied up in your heart. Yes, tears may drop. But rest assured, it'll be tears of relief, not tears of agony. I believe, both of you cherish this friendship more than anyone else and I truly hope that both of you will be friends again. *smiles*

And you, I'm sorry ...

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